Restore Love and Connection
Relationship Coaching for Lawyers and Their Romantic Partners.
Learn together or individually.
MODULE ONE
Break Your Negative Communication Cycles
OUTCOME
Understand and Break Your Relationship Cycles. Start Communicating with Love and Understanding.
DESCRIPTION
When a marriage or relationship is in distress, it is common to have communication challenges, such as criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling, and anxious-pursuer / avoidant-withdrawer dynamics. These challenges create frustration, fear, and disappointment in the couple. You’re probably already a good communicator. You don’t need communication skills per se. But you need to understand the underlying problem that is leading to communication breakdown in the first place. In this program, we identify how your cycles develop and give you the exact steps to break the cycle and start communicating in a way that leaves both of you feeling loved and understood.
MODULE TWO
Step Into the Solution: Emotional Attunement
OUTCOME
Learn the How to Solve Your Relationship Challenges with Emotional Attunement that Leads to Connection.
DESCRIPTION
You might be surprised to hear me say that marriage and relationship problems don’t get fixed by talking about the problems. Talking is part of the solution, but talking alone doesn’t fix anything. You and your partner both want to feel that you care about each other, that your feelings and needs matter to each other, and that you have each other’s back. This feeling comes from emotional attunement together and this is what we practice in real time during our coaching sessions. When it happens, I point out that you are in the solution and it feels good! You will quickly start building the skill so that you can get into the solution on your own. By teaching you this skill, this program leads to permanent transformation of your relationship so that you do not need to rely on professional support forever.
MODULE THREE
The Science and Art of Relationship Repair
OUTCOME
Gain the Skill You Need to Repair and Reconnect When Hurts Happen.
DESCRIPTION
All relationships go through a natural cycle of harmony-disharmony-repair or connection-disconnection-reconnection. The successful relationships are the ones that know how to repair and reconnect after hurts happen. Without the skill to repair and reconnect, hurts build up, resolution never comes, and the relationship eventually ends. Building on modules one and two, this is a critical skill you need. In this program, you learn an easy to remember three step process so that you can repair whenever hurts occur and you need to restore your love and connection.
MODULE FOUR
Build a New Love that Is Stronger than Ever Before
OUTCOME
Develop a Secure Connection and Custom Plan to Achieve a Shared Vision for Your Future
DESCRIPTION
With the skills you learn in this program, you will break the negative cycles of the past and learn how to give each other love, support, and connection in difficult moments. This empowers you as a couple to stop working against each other and to work together toward a shared vision for your relationship and your future. Once you have the resources and skills you need, we create a custom plan for you to build and maintain a loving relationship that is deeper and more fulfilling than ever before.
MODULE FIVE
Financial Harmony
OUTCOME
Aligned financial goals, reduced conflicts over money.
DESCRIPTION
Address financial disagreements with assertiveness and understanding through financial planning sessions and open communication practices. Establishing a common ground on monetary matters clears a major hurdle in your relationship, leading to fewer conflicts and synchronised financial objectives.
MODULE SIX
Future Planning Together
OUTCOME
Aligned long-term desires and expectations for the future.
DESCRIPTION
Set the stage for a shared future with vision boarding and scenario planning. This process helps visualize joint aspirations, integrating both your professional and personal dreams into a cohesive plan that promises a fulfilling shared future.
MODULE SEVEN
Coping with Professional Stress
OUTCOME
Better stress management, less spillover into personal life.
DESCRIPTION
Learn to segregate the strains of your professional demands from your personal life. Utilizing mindfulness practices and setting professional boundaries effectively reduces work-related stress, preventing it from impacting your relationship.
MODULE EIGHT
Maintaining and Sustaining
OUTCOME
Sustained relationship improvements, long-term satisfaction.
DESCRIPTION
Instill practices that ensure the longevity and vitality of your relationship with the creation of ongoing relationship rituals and monthly check-ins. These strategies foster continuous growth and connection, helping your love thrive well beyond this transformative journey.
Because of your hard work and dedication, you deserve to succeed in all areas of your life.
MODULE NINE
Automation Error
OUTCOME
Automation Error
DESCRIPTION
Automation Error
MODULE TEN
Automation Error
OUTCOME
Automation Error
DESCRIPTION
Automation Error
MODULE ELEVEN
Automation Error
OUTCOME
Automation Error
DESCRIPTION
Automation Error
MODULE TWELVE
Automation Error
OUTCOME
Automation Error
DESCRIPTION
Automation Error
Modules
1
Self Discovery
This is the starting point, you embark on a journey of self-discovery. By identifying your ideas, values, interests, passions, and strengths, you’ll be able to start to map out a meaningful and fulfilling future beyond your current role and identity.
Duration: 3 hours
2
Purpose Discovery
The 'Purpose Discovery' module involves deep, perhaps lengthy, reflection exercises and visualisation techniques to help you discover and validate your new purpose beyond your work identity. You will leave this module feeling empowered and confident about your next phase of life.
Duration: 3 hours
3
Process Development
In this ‘foundation’ module, you’ll start to build a clear roadmap for your journey into the future. Through a clear understanding of goal-setting and action planning, you’ll gain the tools and techniques you need to navigate this significant transition. You may well find this quite different from any change you’ve managed before.
Duration: 3 hours
4
Support Development
This module will guide you in how to prepare yourself for the way forward. You’ll learn to ‘let go’ of the ‘past’ and the need for forgiveness and gratitude to facilitate this. We’ll discover who and what to avoid and how to identify ‘partners in believing’ who’ll support you in what may be a complex period of setting yourself free.
Duration: 3 hours
5
Managing Transition
Building on the previous module, you'll learn stress management techniques, how to deal with anxiety, and resilience-building strategies. You’ll learn to have faith and belief in yourself and transmit this to others. We’ll revisit the work you did in Modules 2 and 3 and fill out any additional detail or clarity. This module prepares you emotionally to manage the way forward seamlessly.
Duration: 3 hours
6
Harvesting Transition
In this module you’ll ‘launch’ your new ‘business’ of being YOU in ‘life-after-work’. You'll learn confidence-building exercises and ongoing action planning techniques to face any future fears and uncertainties. By paying attention to your intention without tension and with the support of your ‘team’ you can be confident your expectations will be met. This module ensures you step into your next phase ‘Powered Up’ with a sense of renewed significance and life force. Perhaps it’s time for a ‘starting party’!
Duration: 3 hours
Who is it for?
- A lawyer facing challenges balancing professional demands with personal relationship.
- Experiencing difficulties strengthened your bond with your partner.
- Eager to transform relationship distress into a loving, supportive connection.
Who is it not for?
- Anyone with a bad attitude who isn't willing to consider their own contribution to relationship challenges.
- Unwilling to confront and work through relationship difficulties.
- Not interested in investing time in rebuilding a supportive, loving relationship.
About Daniel Robertson
I'm Daniel Robertson, committed to empowering lawyers and their partners to strengthen their relationships amid the pressures of a legal career. With four years of coaching experience rooted in my legal background, I understand how career stress can strain personal connections. I focus on practical communication and conflict resolution strategies to help couples rebuild and sustain a loving, supportive relationship. My goal is to guide you towards a harmonious life where your professional success is balanced with a fulfilling personal life.
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Time does not heal. Love and connection do.
